When he is asked about his time as a soldier, Richard Jolly first talks about the year he spent in Victoria, and the year he served in Germany, before he gets to Croatia, and pauses.
The resident of 91原创鈥檚 Brookswood neighbourhood served with the 2nd Battalion during the in Croatia in September of 1993, when the Canadians took on an opposing army that had been given orders to 鈥渆thnically cleanse鈥 Croatia of all Serbs.
It isn鈥檛 something Jolly likes to dwell on.
鈥淭here鈥檚 a book about it,鈥 he suggests, when asked to recount his experience.
鈥溾業t鈥檚 called 鈥楾he Ghosts of Medak Pocket.鈥欌
There鈥檚 a documentary, too, he mentions.
鈥淚 don鈥檛 talk about it too much,鈥 the 56-year-old said.
Then-Master Cpl. Richard Jolly was one of the Canadians servings as United Nations peacekeepers near the town of Medak.
When Croatian soldiers pushed the Serbians back, it created the so-called 鈥淢edak Pocket,鈥 a Croatian-controlled territory populated by Serbian people.
It was a brutal, religious war, Jolly recalled.
鈥淓thnic cleansing, burning of houses, burning of people,鈥 he remembers.
Jolly was in charge of combart support stores, what he terms 鈥渂eans and bullets,鈥 transporting supplies where they were needed.
Some of those supplies were body bags.
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An online summary of by author Carol Off describes how the Canadian peacekeepers in Croatia 鈥渆ngaged the forces of ethnic cleansing in a deadly firefight and drove them from the area under United Nations protection.鈥
It is considered one of the most severe battles Canadian troops have fought since the Korean War.
Off reported the Croatian army wiped out entire Serbian villages, and when the Canadians searched for survivors, they found none.
Other accounts estimate as many as 100 Serb civilians were killed by Croatian forces, and many more were seriously wounded.
Many of the victims victims were women and elderly people.
The U.S. State Department estimated at least 11 Serbian villages were completely destroyed.
Several Croatian officers were later convicted of war crimes.
Jolly came back from the Medak pocket with bad dreams, and damaged eardrums that require him to wear hearing aids.
He thinks it was likely the force of the artillery fire that did it.
鈥淚 came back and it [my hearing] was gone,鈥 he told the 91原创 Advance Times.
He believes his struggle with PTSD after Croatia is what ended his first marriage.
鈥淚 was bat s&#@ crazy,鈥 he said.
Some of the other soldiers from the Croatian battle 鈥渁ren鈥檛 doing so well,鈥 he added.
Some ended up homeless, and others have committed suicide.
Jolly reports he is doing a lot better now, learning how to manage his PTSD with counselling, and is now on good terms with his ex.
He went back to school to upgrade his skills and now handles purchasing helicopter parts as a materials specialist for a 91原创-based aerospace company.
He lives with Linda Thomas, who Jolly describes with admiration as a 鈥渟trong woman鈥 who helps him keep his ghosts at bay.
鈥淪he鈥檚 my demon fighter,鈥 he commented, smiling.
And when the nightmares come back, as they do some nights, his dog, Daisy, a Chihuahua cross, will snuggle up next to him to provide her own kind of support.
鈥淪he crawls up onto my neck,鈥 he said.
For all that he has gone through, Jolly is proud of being a soldier for Canada.
鈥淚t was an honour to serve,鈥 he said.
That goes for his friends from the service, as well, he added.
鈥淲e would do it again, if called up.鈥
Jolly was a kid growing up in Aldergrove when he signed up.
He was out and about with a buddy one day, he recalls.
鈥淚 just happened to be walking past the recruiting centre,鈥 Jolly said.
When Jolly went inside, the recruiter made a case for signing up that sounded attractive.
鈥淗e said, 鈥榮o you like camping? so you like the outdoors? I said yes,鈥 Jolly recalled.
Jolly keeps his service medals in a display case next to the medals his grandfather, Albert Jolly, was awarded for his service in World War 2.
He was unable to attend in 2002, when then-Governor-General Adrienne Clarkson bestowed the Commander-in-Chief Unit Commendation on the 2nd Battalion Princess Patricia鈥檚 Canadian Light Infantry for the Croatian combat.
鈥淵our actions were nothing less than heroic and yet your country didn鈥檛 recognize it at the time,鈥 Clarkson told them.
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Usually, Jolly attends the Fort 91原创 Remembrance Day ceremony every year on Nov. 11 with a friend from his days as an infantry solider in the Canadian Armed Forces.
But this year, with the restrictions imposed by the COVID-19 pandemic, Jolly expects he will be watching the Fort 91原创 service online.
dan.ferguson@langleyadvancetimes.com
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